Have you tried counseling for yourself or your child but were required by your counselor to relive your traumatic experience either in session or through a journal? Did you quit or feel worse from the experience?
Please don’t give up on counseling. All approaches are not alike and do not require reliving the experience.
There is a wealth of studies indicating that counseling which forces you to relive an event (called exposure-therapy), is not more effective than other counseling approaches in which you are not forced to discuss the event.
For detailed information on the equal effectiveness of counseling please read this scientific article: